Hillary Berry: Certified Sex Coach

• Sex Coach
• Sex Educator
• Sex Expert
• BDSM Practitioner/Specialist
• Polyamory
• Sexuality Advocate

Biography, Degrees and Certifications:

I am a Certified Sex Coach, and have my Bachelors degree in English Literature, summa cum laude.

My training as a Sex Coach includes 220 continuing education credit hours through Sex Coach U and AASECT, the leading organization for sexologists. I am a member of the World Association of Sex Coaches and the Phi Kappa Phi honor society, and am a Kink Aware Professional.

I used to experience low desire, extreme anxiety, and even pain during sex as a result of trauma. I sought professional help from both gynecologists and therapists, but they were more uncomfortable talking about sex than I was! I was left feeling broken and like there was nothing that could be done to reclaim my sex life.

I struggled for years before getting introduced to a sex positive community that taught me how to reclaim my power as a sexual being. My own struggles with sex inspired me to devote my life to helping others heal their sexual selves and their intimate relationships.

I have been partnered for 9 years to my wonderful husband, so I know the hard work it takes to keep a long-term relationship hot! Also, as a practicing polyamorist (someone who has multiple romantic/sexual partners with the knowledge and consent of all parties), I know what it’s like to date in the age of Tinder and OKCupid.


Check out my website sexcoachhillary.com for information on pricing.

Professional Philosophy:

My philosophy towards Sex Coaching is that people are whole, capable, and naturally resourceful, and can co-create solutions to their problems with the aid of a coach asking powerful questions, listening, empowering, and eliciting the creativity a client already possesses. The aim of Sex Coaching is to teach you practical skills to overcome your present challenges, as well as helping you develop the resilience and resourcefulness to tackle sexual concerns that crop up in the future.

Range of Services/Programs Offered:

I offer Sex Coaching for individuals, couples, and relationship groups in person, via telephone, or via Zoom videoconferencing. I facilitate workshops and do speaking engagements.

I also offer education for clinical professionals on sexuality, identifying and serving sexual minorities, and making a clinical practice more inclusive and inviting to LGBTQIA+, non-monogamous, and kinky folk.

Areas of Specialization:

• Low or no sexual desire
• Sexual inhibition/shyness
• Performance anxiety
• Difficulty experiencing orgasm alone or with a partner
• Body image issues
• Developing dating skills
• Difficulty communicating or negotiating sexual desires and needs
• Learning to live with a chronic STI
• Empowering individuals to engage in safer sex discussions with new partners

• Little or no sex in the relationship
• Aversion to touch
• Mismatched desire
• Difficulty communicating or negotiating sexual desires and needs
• Erotic skills need improvement
• Interest in exploring BDSM, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, swinging, etc. safely and confidently

Primary Audiences Served:

• Women • Couples • Non-monogamy • BDSM

Office Hours:

Monday-Friday 5pm-8pm, Saturday-Sunday 10am-8pm