Dr. Linda De Villers: Licensed Psychologist; AASECT Certified Diplomate in Sex Therapy; AASECT Supervisor; AASECT Certified Educator

•Sex Expert
•Sex Therapist

Biography, Degrees and Certifications:

Licensed State of California Psychologist #8518
PhD Psychologist University of Windsor, Ontario
AASECT Certified Supervisor
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
AASECT Certified Sex Educator


De Villers, L. (2016). Love skills: A fun, upbeat guide to sex-cessful relationships. (6th Ed.). Marina del Rey, CA: Aphrodite Media. (1st edition published by Impact Publishers, 1997).

De Villers, L. (2012). Simple Sexy Food™: 101 Tasty Aphrodisiac Recipes and Sensual Tips to Stir Your Libido and Feed Your Love. Marina del Rey, CA: Aphrodite Media.

Faculty Appointments:

Pepperdine University Graduate School of Education and Psychology, Adjunct Professor for graduate MFT course in Human Sexuality, 1989-present (Five/year).

Santa Monica College, Associate Professor, Psychology, 1980-present. Teach undergraduate 3-unit Human sexuality courses each semester.

Presentations, Journal Articles and Media:

De Villers, L. (2013, December). Getting in touch with touch. A Use of Caressing Exercises to Enrich Sensual Connection and Evoke Ecstatic Experience in Couples In G. Ogden, Guest Editor, Extraordinary Sex Special Issue, Journal of Sexual and Relationship Therapy. Doi:10.1080/14681994.2013.870336.

In-house sex columnist for Health magazine; Weekly columnist for Playboy.com for over a year; quoted in numerous magazines and newspapers, from the New York Times, to Cosmopolitan, to Shape and Men’s Health.

Professional Philosophy:

In my role as a psychologist, I have specialized in helping people with a wide range of sexual and relationship difficulties since 1984. I support individuals and couples in their desire to create passion in their relationships and have happy, healthy sex lives.

I take an integrative, collaborative, positive approach to sexuality that includes warmth, wit, and mutual respect. We focus on finding creative solutions to your difficulties. Sometimes simple solutions are quickly discovered and adopted; other times an exploration of underlying contributors to the difficulty is very helpful in discovering the most effective solutions.

A willingness to actively engage in our sessions, along with your willingness to carry out between-session assignments, speeds the process. We jointly select helpful outside activities to effectively resolve your difficulty, such as:

•Learning effective communication, if partnered, to increase understanding and commitment
•Carrying out individual activities to improve self-esteem and body image
•Adopting sexy, healthy eating habits
•Starting a regular exercise routine
•Practicing relaxation and stress management techniques
•Learning sensual touch
•Writing about sexual thoughts and feelings
•Reading outside material
•Consulting with a physician, if warranted

If you avoid active participation, we look for underlying barriers and move beyond them.

Range of Services/Programs Offered:

Professional and Public Presentations
Supervision for AASECT certification
Consultant to Media
Sexual Enrichment
Private Therapy for Individuals and Couples

Areas of Specialization:

My specialties include:

•Improving communication skills for couples and individuals
•Overcoming a wide variety of sexual concerns, from dysfunction to desire
•Counseling busy professionals to strengthen relationships
•Using a “bodymind” approach to resolve difficulties
•Empowering women to embrace their sexuality and have a positive body image
•Embracing a holistic approach to health that includes loving relationships, clean eating, and regular exercise

Primary Audiences Served:

Adults from 18-80

Office Hours:

Monday – Friday 8:00 -7:00 p.m.; Occasional Saturdays